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Post by wishlesshollow on Jun 25, 2004 22:51:47 GMT 10
i have a friend that whenever i am near her i am so pulled to her i am out of control. i cant seem to act normal and i dont know exactly what i feel for her. when i am with her i just want to kiss her (or bite but thats a secret)  i am really confused and i dont really know how i feel she is one of my best friends and i care alot about her and i am worried this will screw up our friendship . does anybody have any ideas about what i should do? thanks for listening wishlesshollow  |
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Post by Thorn on Jun 26, 2004 1:04:58 GMT 10
Talk to her, if your friendship is as special as she is even if she doesnt feel the same it wont be affected. If you dont ask you dont get
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Post by wishlesshollow on Jun 26, 2004 1:23:28 GMT 10
thanks thorn i know i probly should tell her but i really dont think that i can. I would be risking alot and i am preety sure she doesnt feel the same way
wishlesshollow
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Post by Petronia on Jun 26, 2004 3:57:38 GMT 10
My Dear wishlesshollow, I agree with Thorn, talk to the young lady and tell her how you feel, be honest and explain that you understand if she doesnt feel the same way, because no matter what your friendship with her is important and you wont do anything to destroy that. That way if she does not feel the same way about you she will know that she can tell you that without fear of losing your friendship. And like Thorn said if your friendship is special it wont be effected by you telling her how you feel. ![]() i8.photobucket.com/albums/a9/TearsForeverFrozen/Smilies/HUG10.gif [/IMG] Petronia |
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Post by Minara on Jul 11, 2004 11:02:32 GMT 10
WLH, I think Petronia is very wise.
You should invite your friend to a coffe shop, nothing too formal but not too casual. You can sit and have lattes and chat. It's private but not too crowded. Just tell her that you need to let something off your chest and let her know how you feel. I recommend starting off by telling her how much her friendship means to you and that you would never ever jeopardize that. But just tell her that you like her, and if she reciprocates, so much the better.
But as a word of forewarning, don't lose control of yourself due to your feelings. I speak from experience when I say that if you do, you will regret it and even though you might have the best of intentions, you could do some irreparable damage and she may end up resenting you for it.
Not to scare you there, but just respect her wishes if she's not into you in that way, and enjoy being her best mate.
Min
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Post by wishlesshollow on Aug 31, 2004 9:14:09 GMT 10
thankyou for the help min. i have already wrote down my actions in the other thread but i though you would like to know that friends was the end of it . well not talking much at all really . anyway
*bows *
wishlesshollow
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