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Apr 23, 2004 11:21:09 GMT 10
Post by Minara on Apr 23, 2004 11:21:09 GMT 10
Kayleigh, welcome to the board If the guy you were with was so repulsive, why did you lose your virginity to him? And this is why I believe people should be in love before they have sex... Min
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”¨@ˆÄŽRŽq
Vampire
Innocence
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Apr 23, 2004 17:50:53 GMT 10
Post by ”¨@ˆÄŽRŽq on Apr 23, 2004 17:50:53 GMT 10
*sighs*
I'm totally jealous because my friend chenoa had sex! *squeals*
I mean she just totally blurted it out after easter was over.
so...I guess whenever I have questions I'd ask her, I'm always asking her the same question. LOL. I mean I try to think of another one, but I end up asking her that one. LOL.
Though...I'm still jealous of her that she did it.
though as much as I can't stop being so envious....I have myself *laughs* I mean its better to do it alone, because you get alot of pleasure, then again the bad thing about it is...you miss all the cuddling and whatnot....eh, I'm pretty much used to being by myself *winks*
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May 2, 2004 21:29:53 GMT 10
Post by Minara on May 2, 2004 21:29:53 GMT 10
Charlotte, my love, don't rush it.
Although sex is great, it honestly isn't worth worrying about if you're not ready or feel you haven't found the right person. I was quite far behind in terms of sexual activity when put against my friends, but I am glad I didn't let myself get rushed into anything.
Just trust your heart, not your groin =)
Minara
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”¨@ˆÄŽRŽq
Vampire
Innocence
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May 3, 2004 11:19:33 GMT 10
Post by ”¨@ˆÄŽRŽq on May 3, 2004 11:19:33 GMT 10
LOL>ROTF!
ah minara my good friend *winks* of course I'm not going to do that, though you know you should try tell those of the opposite sex. LOL. sometimes they just do it and think down there instead of up here *points to her head*. LOL.
I just said "some" of the opposite sex, not all *winks*
yea I'm not going to rush into it, instead I'll just go play by myself *laughs*
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Jun 30, 2004 3:32:43 GMT 10
Post by wishlesshollow on Jun 30, 2004 3:32:43 GMT 10
Sex a subject that scares peoples parents half to death and then they have a long time in which they prepare a lecture and start speaking and i must say that all i heard throught the whole time was and i quote " you msunt rush into it " as if i couldnt have figured it out for myself they needed to specify that . i sometimes wonder if they wanted a child or if they wanted a very inteligent pet. one the could have fixed and no problems with. there speach though obviosuly being to late in its teachings as i had already decided to wait till i found somebody that meant enough for me to give myself to them completly did bring into retrospect that sex is a very important thing to humans. I belive that alot of people just rush into it . i am not saying that i am and angel i am by no means smiles sex is a expressive and special sign that there is still humanity worth keeping *bows* wishlesshollow
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Jul 12, 2004 0:41:48 GMT 10
Post by † Lestat † on Jul 12, 2004 0:41:48 GMT 10
I do know that somepeople dont think about sex and what could happen to them...
Peer pressure has a lot to answer to.... its bad enough having your hormones kick in and make you feel and think things, without your friends or your girlfriend/boyfriend saying that you have to do it if you loved them, or because everyone else is doing it.. or what ever other reasons are offered up to make you feel that you have to give in..
I have a mate who is 21 and still a virgin because he wants to wait for the right girl.. I know its hard for him, because some mates make fun of him and girls that he dates sometimes think there is something strange about him... but I think its great that he is willing to wait and not be pressured into something that he doesnt feel ready to do...
I knew 2 girls once who were sisters, they were only 2 years apart in age, the younger one first had sex when she was 14 just because of her hormones.... the older sister waited till she was 18 because she wanted to make sure she was old enough to make her own choices without being pressured by anything...
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May 31, 2005 8:26:30 GMT 10
Post by QueenNeurotic on May 31, 2005 8:26:30 GMT 10
I have never had sex, ( I am to self unsure) However, I know that when I have sex I will be a wanting it all the time and I will probably be really kinky. I dono about sex I have heard mixed feelings about it, but I still think I really want it...I just dont want it to be bad my first time and that distroy my veiw of sex...any tips of how to decide if a guy is good in bed without sex?
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Jun 1, 2005 23:19:20 GMT 10
Post by Minara on Jun 1, 2005 23:19:20 GMT 10
Unfortunately QueenNeurotic, there really isn't a way that I have determined to find out if someone is sexually skilled. It depends. If he has had many partners before I would say he probably knows a thing or two, but then again, just because you've haven't given it to everyone, that doesn't mean that you can't be a good lover.
When I first had sex, I was with someone who also was a virgin. It was awkward at first but after much practice, our initial lack of expertise has become something that is really phenomenal.
So don't think that because you're a virgin it's going to suck. Everyoen is different.
Min
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Reaper
Fledgling
your eyes are things that lead to the soul but sometimes they are misleading.
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Jun 4, 2005 12:27:54 GMT 10
Post by Reaper on Jun 4, 2005 12:27:54 GMT 10
i don't plan on have sex yet, i plan on wating till i am really in love with the right guy.
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Jun 5, 2005 19:54:33 GMT 10
Post by wishlesshollow on Jun 5, 2005 19:54:33 GMT 10
i am glad that there are still people that belive that is the way they should act
*bows*
wishlesshollow
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Quinn-Ann
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Father and Child
Who is a Child without a Father?
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Jul 9, 2005 21:53:40 GMT 10
Post by Quinn-Ann on Jul 9, 2005 21:53:40 GMT 10
I have a question about vampires and sex. Do they always have sex after they turn? or do they just have sex with their mates? its just something I ahve been wondering? e-mail me with answers please?
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Jun 10, 2007 7:02:38 GMT 10
Post by GabrielaJade on Jun 10, 2007 7:02:38 GMT 10
I am almost 21(yay!) and ever since I've heard of sex I would debate constantly with myself if I wanted to wait until marriage or just until I found a great guy that I loved. Now I know that if I do not make it to my wedding night I would rather be with someone that I really cared about and that I knew cared about me. I have an awesome boyfriend and with our very passionate make-out sessions i know it may very well happen with him and I am very fine and happy about that. However he doesn't seem to like to talk about sex, he said he is tired of talking about it, and i didn't think we talked about it a lot. Anyways I am going to shut up now.
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Aug 16, 2008 6:42:43 GMT 10
Post by GabrielaJade on Aug 16, 2008 6:42:43 GMT 10
well I didn't wait until I was in love to lose it, in fact I had lost it about 6 months after I made that post. It also wasn't to that said boyfriend, in fact it was about 3 or 4 months after that boyfriend broke up with me and my heart. I was in a state of depression and let this guy I had known of sweet talk me and take it. Found out after that he had 20 something partners before me. (yea he was that kind of guy) However I did find my soul mate after him and the sex is so much better. ;D I wish I would of waited until I found the guy I am with now. The funny thing is my soul mate has had three other partners besides me WAY less than the other guys 20 something and my boyfriend is the better one at sex. I even told a mutual friend that the first guy wasn't all that great, and this was before I had, had sex with my boyfriend. My point is I fount out the hard way it is better to wait. That was what I was planning on anyways, even though it didn't happen.
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